Chire-poha-flak rice - they're all the same. For me chire is associate with misti dahi and sandesh - ripe jackfruit and juicy mango. These are eaten on "Jamai-Shosti" - a festival where daughter's parents express their love towards their son-in-law ... a sort of Son-in-law Day like Father Day or Mother Day. When i was very young - we used…